Masturbating when you’re in a relationship: not done?

by LotteLust
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Having fun with yourself and discovering your body is something that we encourage. Even if you are in a relationship. However, some people may feel they can’t masturbate when you are with a partner. Do you feel embarrassed to do it? We give you five reasons why you should be masturbating while in a relationship.

1. Getting to know your body

Okay, of course it’s really fun to let someone else do the work, but don’t rule yourself out! After all, you know your body the best and know what you like – and don’t like. If you have a partner, it can also be nice for them to know what you like, but first you have to find out for yourself. And of course you do that with – exactly – yourself!

2. Masturbating to relax

When you’re in a relationship sometimes fights and discussions happen. When you feel tense or uncomfortable you’re obviously not going to ask them to indulge you down under. However, if you need some release it’s perfectly fine to do this yourself! Masturbating is – besides being nice and fun – very relaxing and you can enjoy it even when your partner is not around. Just pop in the shower or

3. You get the best of both worlds

Even if you want to stay with your partner forever and ever, it doesn’t mean that the rest of the world is suddenly unattractive. Masturbating can be a positive way to fulfill your daydreams while also keeping the fire burning in your relationship. The fact that you have decided to go for someone completely does not guarantee that you have the same sex drive. Sexual desires can gone and go. Masturbation is the perfect solution when you are not (always) on the same page.

4. You have a rich imagination

About those daydreams: they can be about your personal trainer or sexy colleague. This can make you think about sex non-stop in your head. You can also use these fantasies when you want to masturbate and your relationship will benefit from this. And remember: not everything you fantasize about has to become reality. You just have a rich imagination!

5. A libido boost

Another pro of solosex is that it can make you feel more excited to have sex with your partner. Presenting yourself with sexy information (more often) will ensure that you are engaged in sex in a positive way. And solosex is very stimulating for your senses….

In short: try to see masturbation as a nice way to spoil yourself and feel anything but awkward when you want an exciting moment with yourself, while in a relationship. Also fun: masturbating together!

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